Wednesday, January 3, 2018

Merry Christmas - say it all year long!

While celebrating Christmas with my family this year I began reflecting on the true meaning of Christmas - well not 'Christmas' but the phrase "Merry Christmas."

We live in a world that is timid to use the phrase "Merry Christmas" in conversation with people we meet in passing. Fear of offending someone of a different (or no) faith has spawned a plethora of alternative phrases - "Happy Holidays" - the generic catch-all, while some ignore Christmas as a whole and opt for Seasons Greetings or Happy New Year!

Why are some people offended? The core is a difference in belief systems (regardless of how big or small they are) and the perception that one person is pushing their beliefs on another, just casually, in passing.

Briefly stated no two people share the same beliefs. Period. Sure, groups of people may share a huge litany of common individual beliefs but at the core your beliefs are shaped by your experience and since no two people have identical experiences no two sets of belief are the same. Meaning - everyone who hears "Merry Christmas" should be offended, yes even "Christians." After all how can you know the person saying Merry Christmas believes in Christ the same way you do?

I would presume that most reading this are Christian or at least Christian leaning. Whatever the case may be, ask yourself how you would react if a Muslim friend/co-worker said "Eid Mubarak" upon seeing you in the break room? 

The reason I point out why everyone (even those of the same faith) should be offended when greeted with "Merry Christmas" is to show that NO-ONE should be offended. We are all different and we all have different beliefs. Instead take the holiday greeting as it is intended. Translate Eid mubarak or Happy Hanukkah or Merry Christmas and instead of thinking about the implications of the phrase, focus on your intention in returning the phrase. Consider returning the phrase in kind, knowing that for a Christian to say "Eid Mubarak" doesn't deny, but rather magnifies and expands your faith. Think of what you really mean when you say "Merry Christmas." You are really saying you wish the person a safe year, that it will be a time of love and peace, that they will have a joyful time with family and loved ones - and so much more, things we should wish on everyone regardless of what we do or don't believe. 

And with that I will end by saying Merry Christmas. Yes - in January I am saying Merry Christmas. I want you to carry that meaning and message with you regardless of what month is on the calendar. Please, when you see me, feel free to offer whatever greeting you want, I promise to take it in the spirit it is intended.

Thursday, June 15, 2017

An open letter to University of Utah Health Care vis-à-vis Vivian Lee.

Recently my wife and I where at your facility for a brief period following the birth of our son. I would like to share my thoughts and observations.

First – this is our third time doing such a stay in a maternity unit but our first at University Hospital. Our first two were at an outstanding facility in Scottsdale, Arizona. I really can’t say enough about the great medical professionals and facility – for both births we had an amazing experience. You could tell that not only did the floor have the staff they needed but they also had the resources they needed. Questions were answered and requests came within minutes. Every inch of the hospital was clean and in good repair. The cafeteria had good food at a great price.

Monday, June 13, 2016

Look before you leap - even when talking about gun laws

Let me be clear: I hate Hitler and everything he promoted and represented. If he is not the most purely evil and destructive person in world history I don't know who would have him beat but the list would be very short.

He has been properly demonized as the primary antagonist of WWII and is responsible for the death of literally millions of people - some estimates place the number close to 100 million while more conservative numbers are in the 50 million range (when combining total military and civilians dead and those murdered in connection with the Holocaust).

Think back now. What was Hitler's weapon? I have done some research and have watched countless documentaries on WWII but have never heard mention of him directly murdering anyone. Even while serving in WWI he was a dispatch runner and served the majority of the war well behind the front lines. A gun was not his weapon. His weapon was and remains to this day, the weapon responsible for the death of millions of people - Words.

Through the influence of his speeches' and power of his pen millions perished.

Here is where many libertarians might stumble. In retrospect it is easy to say that something should have been done to stop him. The Bavarian government should have silenced him, kept him from producing and distributing his pamphlets, refused to recognize his platform. They should have censored him.

But what they can do to him they can do to you. To this very day copies of his book "Mein Kampf" are readily available for purchase almost everywhere in the world. In the U.S. you can walk into most large bookstores and purchase one off the shelves. Even now when the destructive nature of his words almost universally acknowledged they are still easily obtainable. Stores are free to sell them, publishers are free to produce them and individuals are free to purchase them. Why?

Because the same Right that protects "Mein Kampf," protects Longfellow. The Right protecting his anti-Semitic rants, protects the calm words of Steinbeck. The same Right that protects the Quran for Muslin extremists to read protects it for peace loving followers of Islam to read.

Some might even say "but Mein Kampf is so obviously evil" -  to who? Who gets to decide that? Who can decide that?

That is something we need to remember as we talk about gun laws, especially in the wake of the worst mass shooting in U.S. history. Why? Because the same Right that protects Omar Mateen protects millions of law abiding U.S. gun owners.

Does having that belief mean I don't care? - of course not, nothing could be further from the truth. I am simply consistent in my beliefs. Just like I believe I don't have the Right to stop someone's words I believe I don't have the Right to stop what someone owns - be that a book or a firearm.

Again the reply is "but something so obviously created to destroy..."  but - 'obvious' to whom?

I believe that I could make a compelling argument to support the same conclusion about words. Think about the total loss of life either directly or indirectly linked to words. The quantity is overwhelming. From atrocities in recent memory done by Muslim extremists to the words of Karl Marxx and The Bible (Spanish Inquisition, Crusades). While I have not done any real calculations I believe there would be a similar percentage of writing that has been used to kill as firearms that have been used to kill.

Take that in for a minute.

There are literally hundreds of millions of firearms in the U.S. and hundreds of millions of rounds of ammunition are manufactured each year; only an indescribably small portion will ever be used to commit a crime. The vast-vast majority of firearms and ammunition are used peacefully - with many being used to practice and train for self-defense and to train law enforcement and military. Many are used for shooting sports and competitions.

We need to inspire people to believe that we can and do live in a better world, one where killing people is not okay. That we live in a world where the Rights of a Muslim, an author, a publisher, a blogger are protected just like the Rights of a firearms owner. Stripping the Rights of a gun owner only sends the message that Rights are fleeting that, if the voice is loud enough other Rights can be disposed of as well.

I'm honestly sad about the tragedy in Orlando. Over the weekend there was a terrible loss of life. I'm sad that instead of honoring the victims and talking about the legacy they left, instead of embracing our humanity and mourning we are forced to talk about gun rights. 50 people lost their lives and instead of talking about what a horrible thing that is we are instead talking about how to punish law abiding citizens.